FocusPositives

忘 wàng, to forget / to overlook / to neglect
掉 diào, to drop / to fall
失去 shī qù, to lose
çš„ de, (possessive particle) / of
珍惜 zhēn xī, treasure / value / cherish
擁有 yōng yǒu, to have / to possess

忘掉失去的, 珍惜擁有的…
Forget your loses, Cherish what you possess…

~ Chinese Drama:步步惊心 Ep.18 quoted from the King.

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While watching “Beauty Knows No Pain” or “女人最痛”, a Chinese Drama last night. I heard this, “Every time you take 1 steps forward, you take 3 steps backwards. When will you ever reach your goal?” This woman was at her lowest with her beloved family, valued career and love life. Everything was a failure.  She lost all spirits. Her boss saw that and sent her to work with her worse nemisis who humiliates her and pushes her temper into eruption. In shame and humiliations she fights back and wins back what she values most.

Reminder: Your worst fears and nemesis can set you backwards but it can also be your best teachers. If you allow it, this can be a powerful source of energy that pushes you a lot farther ahead then ever expected.