From today’s drama dreamland a small reminder popped up to tell me to focus on the good rather than the bad in life. It may seem life is full of disappointments but there are also beautiful sparkles in between.
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“Actually life is not perfectly beautiful, but is doesn’t represent life is not beautiful”
Wouldn’t life be wonderfully happier if we all gave a helping hand and threw out each other’s trash? Sometime all it takes it a quiet listening ear, a kind word. ^_^
~ Inspiration from Title: Swipe Tap Love, 愛我請留言 – Ep 12
Genre: Romance drama
Others hurt us but we have a choice not to continue hurting ourselves. I’ve always known a long time ago I needed to learn to love myself first before I can love others. This short dialogue between child and adult made me realize how simple it is to love oneself. Personifying our body parts taught this child, as well as the adult (me), to understand the things we do directly damages ourselves. Every part of us deserves to be loved and treated with respect and cared as our closest family and friends.
If you were a body part within yourself, who would you least like to be and most like to be? What would you have to say about the relationship between the two of you? Would you like yourself? Are you forced to work over your capacity 24/7 with no rest, day after endless day? How long would you last without striking back or falling ill? If I were my eyes I would want a replacement and quit right now! Learn to look at things from “their” position and what “they” have to endure. When we are overworked or unhappy our bodies becomes unhealthy and fall sick. We directly effected and influenced by ourselves more than anyone else. Love is a two-way street, take care of “them” and “they” will love and protect you a 100 times more. Don’t just “love yourself” but “love every PART of yourself”.
~ Inspiration from Title: Swipe Tap Love, 愛我請留言 – Ep 04
Genre: Romance drama
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Being friends is very simple, just accommodate each other’s shortcomings, and magnify each other’s strong points.
~ Inspiration from Title: Come Home Love, æ„›.回家 – Ep379
Genre: TV series
~Inspirations from Title: The Hippocratic Crush II, oncall36å°æ™‚II – Ep 12
Genre: Medical drama
Translations: Google & Focuspositives.com
Do you believe there are more solutions than problems? I often focus on the problem and the difficulties that I need to face. This makes everything worse then it really is. I fell in love with 車車’s character, played by  (岑麗香, Eliza Sam), and her perspective from the start. She reminded me to focus on the solutions and encouraged me with the idea, solutions outnumber problems. When I think of this idea I have new hope in solving difficult and unavoidable situations in life. She lives her life slowly and enjoys every moment. She cares and sacrifices for others. She takes time to resolve her problems one by one. When she can’t find a solution she tries again another day. At the end of the story, she dies within a week with incurable cancer. She knew her own lifespan since she was fifteen. I asked myself, does it really take an incurable disease to make us wake up and live like her? She wanted people to remember her smile and goodness when she was gone. Could we truly imitate her attitude towards life? I hope I can learn from this character and live life to the fullest without any of the misfortunes she had to go through and if I have to go through her misfortune, I would have her courage and attitude.
Vocabulary:
(Vocabularies below are written in the Traditional Chinese. The drama characters are written in Simplified Chinese)
辦法總比困難多 There’s always more solutions compared to difficulties
辦法 bà nfǎ, means / method / way (of doing sth)
總 zǒng, always / to assemble / gather / total / overall / head / chief / general / in every case
比 bÇ, (particle used for comparison and “-er than”) / to compare / to contrast / to gesture (with hands) / ratio
困難 kùnnan, difficult / challenging / straitened circumstances / difficult situation
多 duÅ, many / much / often / a lot of / numerous / more / in excess / how (to what extent) / multi- / Taiwan pr. [duo2] when it means “how”
Learning Materials:
CLICK to study Chinese pinyin and character flashcards: Quotes & inspirations from January, 2014 Click here and rollover >> icon for strokes, audio, and more.
